I understand people get busy and have emergencies. I do. I have a life too. Well, usually I have a life. A busy one. The reason I am kvetching is that I have a friend (not a close one) who contacted me to do a distanced visit a couple of weeks ago. It was going to be my first visit after my vaccines and my two week wait period. I was nervous and excited. I worked on my backyard and cleaned my lawn furniture so we can sit outside. I made a banana bread so we could have something to eat. On the day she was supposed to come over she emailed me that a semi-emergency came up and she had to cancel. Okay. No problem. I parceled out the banana bread because the last thing I needed was to eat it all.
I waited a bit and we rescheduled for today. I waited for another cancellation. Nothing. I made a vegan cheesecake (okay, it was for my class but I waited to make it so it would be ready for her visit) and cleaned off the lawn furniture again. So today around noon I emailed her to say " are we still on? If you need to cancel, I get it since your trip is in a few days." I know I sounded understanding but I didn't think she would cancel again. She cancelled on me AGAIN. This time with no emergency just "we have a lot to do".
Am I weird? Is it the norm to make plans with someone and then cancel at the last minute or hours before hand? Or not even cancel for a reason? Then she emails "maybe we can meet up after my trip and go for a walk in the park." And have me at the park waiting for her to arrive?? No, thank you.
Now I have an entire cheesecake I am going to end up eating out of frustration! Darn. The dog walker better take a big piece!
Then I worked on another recipe that had three stages. I had to leave one stage dehydrating for a few hours. I will show it tomorrow.
Until tomorrow...
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